Love and Respect

"Love" and "Respect" How important are these for a relationship?
 Will you stay in a relationship where there is love but no respect?

Its true "Respect is as important as love in a relationship"

I know one of my friend she got married to NRI. Her husband is educated, well settled,financially sound. But when it comes to their relationship they were not happy,because ever since they got married there is some or the other problem going on.But the majore problem is "MALE EGO".
She said if something used to go wrong he used to shout infront of his parents,shouts publically and physically abuse her and still he used to expect that my friend should "RESPECT HIM". Why?

I want to ask one thing why you have so much ego

                                    "Is my friend not educated enough
                                                      or
                                    Was not doing good in her carrier"

She left her family,friends,carrier even her surname for you. Her upbringing is done with "Golden Spoon". She was the Princes of her father, Heart of her mother and Bestest friend for her brother.

Still she left everything for you. The only thing she expected was the Love and Respect from you.

My friend don't forget that :- Your Mom who is a Women gave birth to you, nourished you, fight all odds just to give you a good life.You have a sister(promise to a sister that you will stand by her side, protect her) who is happily married.You once had a girlfriend with whom you were seeing the future.

which means "Your world is surrounded by a women". 

Then why you disrespect your wife. "Is she not a WOMEN??" or  "Just because you don't have a blood relation with her".

Its been said that "Marriages are made in Heaven"
     
                                   "You expect her to be an angle in your life
                                     But before that give her heaven so that she
                                     could be an angle."

Mr. Husband Learn to respect your wife because she might not be world for you but she left her whole world for you. 

Search For Happiness

                                                   

 What is Happiness?

• Happiness is meeting old friends

• Happiness is spending time with parents, kids, romancing with wife or husband.

• Happiness is watching movies, going to restaurants, trips.

• Dressing well for a party.

• Having a good haircut, shopping etc.

• Buying new gadgets, iphones, Samsung S8. Etc.

 But the question is ARE WE REALLY HAPPY?????
THIS IS ALL WHAT WE NEED IN OUR LIFE????????
ARE THESE THE PERMANENT SOURCE OF HAPPINESS???????????????

Here is the lesson taught by Lord Krishna to Arjun in Bhagavad Gita :

"Every one of us is searching after happiness, but we do not know what real happiness is. We see so much advertised about happiness, but practically speaking we see so few happy people. This is because so few people know that the platform of real happiness is beyond temporary things".

One day Professor entered the classroom and said to students that today there will be a surprise test. Professor then distributed sheets to the whole class. Students got surprised after seeing the question paper because there were no questions on the sheet except the black dot on the middle of the sheet.

The Professor said your test is to write about what you see on the sheet.

Some of the students got clueless, some started writing about the black dot.

After one hour professor collected the sheets.

After checking the sheets of the students, he said ‘Everyone wrote about the black dot but nobody wrote anything about the white sheet’.

Students got surprised that what professor meant to say.

"Professor explained we all go through the bad phase in our life, we keep thinking about it, our mind is consumed with lot of negativity. Not focusing on what we have or what is positive in our life but focusing what went wrong in our life, or what we don’t have".

Similarly everyone wrote about black dot (which symbolizes negativity) and nobody focused on the white sheet (which symbolizes positivity).

Hence the moral of the story is

• Focus on good that is happening in our life and deal with the problems that our happening in our life.

• Let us not consume our mind with negativity.

• Let us consume our minds with positivity.

• Count your many blessings and name them one by one. It shall surprise you what the lord has done.

• Let us be thankful for what we have.

Therefore "GRATITUDE IS THE ATTITUDE WHICH GIVES THE FORTITUDE" to deal with the toughest challenges in our life".

"Remember we are responsible for our happiness, nobody else".